In our pleasure-fearing culture, most forms of sexual expression are seen as transgressive, perverse, and, ultimately, evil and destructive. It took me a long time to feel completely comfortable with my fiery, intense sexuality. Now, at twenty-nine years old, I have embraced sex as a calling and a vocation. Having worked for five years as a sexual health educator, I realized that I had a profound desire to teach others about sex. Not just about how to properly use a condom, but how to give and receive pleasure, how to learn what you like, and how to communicate with a lover.
Six months ago, I became an escort. At first, I did it primarily for survival and to save for school. As I went on, I realized how much of this job I truly love. The last six months have been a whirlwind of emotions and activity, but I am coming to a place of strength and I feel like my life is full of purpose.
In addition to being a sex worker, I am a pansexual genderqueer polyamorous woman. I have a rich life with a great community of friends. In this blog, I will be sharing stories from my personal and professional life. I would like to demystify escorting and the other subcultures I am immersed in in my life. I will also be sharing erotica on this blog.
I hope one day to come forward and claim this blog under my real name, but I’m not quite ready to do that. My family does not know what I do, and I am not ready to tell them. So until that day comes, it’s Madame Jade to you.